Lolash much?

As Yves Saint Laurant once said,

 “Fashion come and go, but style is forever”

 is a very wise sentence should every Local women in UAE take it for granted and apply it on her for the rest of her life. You can clearly see how the fashion designers are flourished by their businesses specially in Abayas, and most of the designs are inspired by UAE traditional customs which it contains a lot of gold , lots of colors and pretty much a bit exaggerating from the westerns point of view. I think it is good to develop the designs of the Abayas to exceed from a local range to global (or maybe nationally) and how UAE women designers represent the Arab’s fashion to the world.

      Moreover, I can’t say that this developing didn’t make any side effects or sever damages on some of Emirati women taste. I mean its good to have different taste in fashion, it makes you unique, special and elegant. But come on ladies, you need a tough love or a slap from reality to know the difference between standing out and getting attention as a moving jewelry shop. Some of women (allah yihdeehom) add all the rainbow colors on almost 75% of the Abaya which makes it pretty much a ready to wear dress, or adding these 1000 big Chrystal for a going to mall Abaya is not the greatest choice since you’re not going to a wedding to brag about it. And yes! Another thing is you’re not in a football team to a matching Abaya design with your friends, believe me it is nothing but a way to be made fun of and it shows your insecurity of what you wear.

      When I speak for myself, it makes me ashamed to even wear an Abaya when I see those kind women walking in Malls, colleges, or even souqs. I don’t say be the exact same to those wear highly fashioned Abaya’s but be the most elegant with adding little things which makes a lot of difference, to be more respected by others, more professional in working areas, believe me! As a sister who cares a lot of her country! Even fashion in UAE is considered one of the most reflective appearance to what is UAE. So you can use your imagination on Abayas, but use it wisely!

Just Saying

Non-rude-but-loving-Maitha <3

a star was born in the 14th of Sep

Today is a special day for maybe most of the people who knows the one I know , someone really special , so special that i started my first post here about her as a birthday gift .
Hamama H. Harib ! I really thank your Mom for bringing you to life , without you .. many things would've changed , I also thank her the most for raising you to be a better person , because it turned you out to be the best !
i can remember the first time i met Hamama , in 2006 at her 2 days opened for the national day restaurant  in Zayed University ( Almandoos ) was the name of the restaurant -i guess- and she came to me and my mom and had a small chat , but somehow changed some principles to me , the thing I remember the most is you saying :"it doesn't matter if its work , i have to work good all the time and i love it".
since then , i started back my volunteering work , reset my goals and fought for them every single day .
Dear Hamama , thank you for just being yourself , DONT CHANGEE !
from this day , I hope your life may be full of joy , happiness , great achievements and success <3

The coffee bean guy

Well, it has been long time since I wrote in the blog. I didn’t think that there were much to talk about. You can see that Zayed University took my whole life to the maximum, but eventually with all respect ZU , I didn’t deserve these teachers in my first semester. They were very disappointing , non-supporting  at all till I got a 2.46 GPA which I expected more than 3.00 with all this mind blowing effort. But clearly I can’t when I have such a depressing teacher of my colloquy  year in the Global awareness course, UGH! MAN! I can use some ACTIFAST PANADOL in her classes! And the other surprise is that she is going to teach me this semester too  *Shoot Me*.

In this semester I had experienced joy, depression, nerve-breaking , laughter till crying, anger and gossip! A lot of new situations and a lot of emotion which made me forget my main goal and dream and just settled down with continuous days of big goals-free. That for sure made me forget myself and who I am. Maitha Hamdan is known of being energetic, full of life, full of big ambition, multi-talented young lady. WHERE DID SHE GO? Is it true that collage changes you and for good? Or maybe its my first semester and I didn’t know how to balance things up? 

You are probably still wondering why I picked (the coffee bean guy) as a title, well (salamkom allah) Once when I was in collage going to the Coffee bean and tea leaf to grab something to drink after a long quiz, I remember that I had a big grumpy face drawn and complaining to a friend of mine that how my grades are getting lower and lower. “ two hot chocolate, normal size, with whip cream and chocolate sauce on top” said me . “why you are so sad?”said the cashier guy. Then I started nagging and whining like a big baby of how its hard to be in collage. The surprising thing that I ended up listening to his story, This man LOVES education and loves being in collage, he is smart enough to get tons of scholarships , but instead he decides to work to support his poor family. “Study hard, it is never too hard to study”  he said. Then I was jokingly asking him “which Indian movie you liked the best this week?” then he said “I cant afford 30 Dirham for buying a movie ticket.” I don’t know why I took my first 50 Dirham in my purse and gave it to him as a reaction. Maybe because I felt that he needed a time off and he deserved to do something for him, or maybe I felt so guilty for having more of a luxurious life and rarely thank for it. But he never took this money from my hand and never accepted it so it ended up putting it in the tipping box. It was a big slap on my face for showing me reality, I’ve been in harder situation than just studying and I got through it in no time. This guy (which I called him Rihtick) gave me the encourage to study harder and never harden anything.  He made me respect him more for his pride and dignity even for his need of money. He reminded me of how I should thank God everyday for life that I am living and how its easy to enter collage.

Thank you, All my respect to you Rihtick.

why Love?

“I cant live without you” , “ my heartbeats stop whenever you’re not around me”. These are some simple examples of what you can see in facebook posts , tweets of twitter and even personal messages of Blackberry messengers daily and sometime every hour in both male and female genders. If you think about the words of how it contains words of  love and drama emotions  you will constantly think that there is some kind of love story and a boyfriend – girlfriend thing

But ! why don’t “l will always love you” sentence is about a mother , father , sister or even a close friend?

Why is it that all we think about is something twisted like the girl of posting something that “am in love” is really about guy? That really shows how narrow is the way of your thinking ! why don’t you look at the other sides of the words ?

This is how you want to move to a level to be the subject of gossip, you just have to post something related to love, then let the sky be their limit !

I’m  posting this because a truly believe that not everything you read is like what you think, and frankly! I do post love poems just because I like its words , because it makes me happy , is it necessary to love a guy just to post it?

LOVE ! its not for a guy and a secret Romeo and Juliet love , NO! but its 100% pure when you love your God , Mother , father, siblings and close friends .

Frankly , I consider myself nothing without the love of my mother and friends! So My life is fulfilled with love which made who I am today !

With Love <3

Maitha Hamdan